Que sera, sera.

I keep debating whether to make this private. I don’t want you to read it. The no contact rule. Yet other people are and we are helping each other. I know you should know nothing about me right now. Those are the rules. But does it even matter? I know you are not anyway.

I find it so fascinating how every move, every decision, every moment in your life can influence the rest of it. If someone never went to the park that day, they would have never met their wife. If they didn’t have that fight, they would still be lying next to that person today. If they didn’t look down at their phone while driving, they would still be alive.

In Van Wilder, Ryan Reynolds says "Don’t take life too seriously; you'll never get out alive". While this is a good joke, nothing could be further from the truth. Because every moment can influence every single movement afterwards. So be careful and calculated. But also realize that there is a plan. Take advantages of the opportunities put in front of you. The more you grab, the less regrets you will have. And then breathe. Que sera, sera.