great article on how lying can ruin a relationship -
http://www.baggagereclaim.co.uk/why-telling-little-lies-can-end-up-mattering-in-a-big-way/?utm_source=feedburner&utm_medium=feed&utm_campaign=Feed%3A+BaggageReclaim-TheGuideToSingleLivingDatingRelationshipsAndOfCourseManTaming+%28Baggage+Reclaim+Relationship+Blog%29