Its easy to let someone go when you didn't know them.
I realize that no one has really known me. I was never good at communicating my needs, my desires, my goals, my wants, my quirks, my stresses...
The way to take down a wall is to talk it apart. The good, the bad, and the ugly will knock it down brick by brick. I have left so many good things unsaid. And so many things that bothered me. Which does not give the other person the chance to fix them.
I am working so hard on being transparent. Almost too transparent. I have learned that there is no use at all for secrets.